presidentgay:

It’s so clear to me people view lesbians as a group that they need to gain access to in order to gain some sort of imaginary resources that they think exist but don’t. because they think lesbians oppress them and that we have some type of hyper visibility *perks*. idk how to tell everyone this but the lesbian experience is often painful and alienating and it’s so bewildering watching people who aren’t lesbians trivialize our experiences